2012

Week Thirty-Five
Am I a Peacock?

I couldnt help but wonder about the topic of Oprah’s life class this week, “What women do to each other!  Why are women so mean to one another?”

“From the heart of OWN”
1)   Women gossip and betray the trust of others, i.e., spread nasty rumors.
2)   Women participate in mindless conversations, use hurtful words with the malice of intentions.
3)   Women wonder if they are loving fools?   i.e., they trust their friend but she runs off with her man. She then questions her discernment?
4)   Women should concentrate on their own life’s work and not on other’s lifes. When things go very wrong, they should ask themselves what did I learn from that situation?  i.e., the more the disastrous the outcome, the more she will learn from the situation.
5)   Women lie to protect others. Women lie because of their low self-worth.
6)   Women ask why do we settle when someone betrays me?
7)   Women should ask themselves when relationships fail were there clear agreements ? were boundaries honored?
8)   Women realize often they dont protect themselves. Women should have the courage to tell their story out loud.
9)   Women know when they speak from their hearts it triggers compassionate. Women surrender bad works and forgive.
10)  Women are competitive and sometimes think they have to take the other women down by embarassing, negative words.  They use deflection because they want to become the Queen or the Peacock?

Am I a Peacock.  I sure the heck hope not!